Recovery for Spouses and
Partners of Sexual Addicts

I can’t believe we’re here again.

“He promised he would never betray me again. Today I was contacted by his lover, who shared pictures of them in bed; she told me I should give him up. We have three kids and a family business. I don’t know what to do. I have never felt so scared about anything.” – R.B.

Yes, she travels a lot more for work than before… but I thought we were fine.

“We have a good sex life, we share hobbies, and have twin boys who play varsity… and I just found out she has been sexting and meeting with hundreds of men. A friend of mine just forwarded me screenshots of her dating profile. The first emotion is rage at her lovers. I want to punish someone. I can’t handle this much pain.” – T.S.

Betrayal Trauma is abuse to your emotional, physical, and spiritual health.

Your world has been flipped upside down.

The person you turn to for comfort and safety is the person who has harmed and betrayed you.

Unhinged, outraged, humiliated, disoriented, and terrified.

Everything about your relationship feels like a lie.

Shock. Trauma. Vulnerability. Each day unpacking more details of secrets and betrayal has left you feeling nauseated, near paranoid, and completely petrified to trust again.

Sometimes you disassociate between what is real and the life you experienced before you found the secret.

How do I begin to cope with this? Where do I turn for help?

Will you ever be able to trust again?

Many betrayed spouses turn to family and friends who do not know how to support them on this journey.

As a Certified Sexual Addiction Counselor, I will provide you with a map to healing and immediately bring you to resources to help you.

I utilize the most cutting-edge technology for assessments on the betrayal trauma scale. There are workbooks to help you establish boundaries. You will learn to understand and recognize the addiction cycle. I also can provide access to individual, group therapy, crisis support, support meetings, partner recovery group meetings, prepping for disclosure, referrals for your addictive spouse, and the latest books and articles on the subject of healing from relationship betrayal.

Compassionate, informed counseling for men and women.

It’s devastating to struggle because of the sexual behavior of someone you love.

With treatment and an arsenal of resources, we can help you and your partner make informed decisions about your next steps.

We offer support groups, couples counseling, individual counseling, and teletherapy sessions to meet your needs.

What is the next right step?

You brave, amazing soldier. You’ve been to hell and back these last few years.

I know. I’ve been there, too.

You are NOT alone. You’ve already been so courageous. You’ve already made it this far. Help is just on the other side of the phone.

Call me for a free 15-minute consultation: (615) 905-1893.

I can help you locate the pieces to this overwhelming life puzzle, and we can put them together again.